Of Double Minds...

Do you have an artsy/dreamy mind as well as a logical one too?...
Or is it just me being weird again, lol...

Artsy mind...
I wish I can go for a holiday alone in a beach and nobody knows..
Gonna switch off my hp so no one can contact me..
Gonna read a book the whole day.. and take a dip in the sea whenever I feel the weather's too hot..
Gonna observe happy holidayers/families/kids enjoying themselves on the beach..
Sleep like there is no tomorrow..

Logical mind...
You want nobody to know where you are? Have you not learn anything from 127 hours? Heck you can be killed and nobody knows also..
Yea switch off your hp and not only will your family panic when they can't get you, you can't attend to any emergencies in the company too.. and there goes your bonus for the year..
Continue sleepin 18 hours a day and risk losing your brain cells..


Is just me or everyone has this double minded thingy?....

one of the times I find it difficult..

...to live in this world...
yet not live with the world....

OWC

Yes, I'm talking about the infamous Obedient Wives Club.

Seriously would never think I would read such nonsense on the local news but it happened.. In fact, I thought I misread it and actually read it again a 2nd time only to confirm my fear, that there are really stupid people out there.

Quotes from the news which I could not believe my eyes when i read them:

1. “Domestic abuse happens because wives don’t obey their husband"
I really sympathize with abused women with this statement, can't even imagine how it feels like being abused/beaten up by violent husbands who probably have such inferiority that the only way they can feel more 'manly' is to show it that way to women. Imagine going through all the abuse and one day someone tells you it's all your fault that you're being abused. "Sorry la you're not obedient to your hubby that's why you get beaten up like these, it's all your own doing!" Some of the husbands are alcoholics as well I'm sure so I don't think they're even aware if their wives are being 'disobedient' -.-

If I can just tell the so-called 'club' one thing it will be this:
Husbands who abuse their wives have small dicks and most probably they're failures in life as well since they are so insecure and inferior to everything that the only way they can feel better and more macho is by drinking and abusing their wives. What do they expect the 'obedient wives' to do? Keep smiling and agreeing with being abused? "Yes, punch me more please, in my stomach and maybe face too cause I'm so obedient"

Unbelievable.

2nd Quote:

Sex lessons to help wives “serve their husbands better than a first-class prostitute” will be among the classes provided by the Obedient Wives Club (OWC) to help promote harmonious marriages and counter social ills.

Did they just compare wives with prostitutes?????
Helo, if you want to be compared to prostitutes by all means go ahead but please don't generalize and think we all like to be compared that way ok.

"Husband who was kept happy in the bedroom would have no reason to stray, seek out prostitutes or indulge in other social vices."

Thanks for giving the greenlight to husbands to cheat more with this statement. Wouldn't be surprised if their husbands are delighted with this statement since now they've a 'valid' reason to cheat! In fact it is a damn good reason cause it is now not their fault at all for cheating, it's all because of their lousy-in-bed wives you know. I can almost hear all the cheaters applauding as whatever guilt they had previously for cheating have been justified.

While nations everywhere are working towards creating a more modern-ized and liberal world by enforcing women's rights everywhere, I can't believe that our own gender would actually try to sabotage it. By relating women as prostitutes and blaming us for guys being violent, might as well they just blame rape victims straight for being raped because what they're saying is really not much of a difference.

Really hope the club will be banished soon as it creates such embarrassing news for our country.. Sigh..

Anyways enough ranting cause it's a new week ahead =)
Short update:

Last week I was told that I'm too 'nicey' a person by a friend of mine and let some people step over me, think I took the advice a lil too seriously so I tried to be more upfront and blatant for awhile..

..and I think I upset someone >.<

So I'm back to my nicey self cause I just feel very bad every time I upset people (well unless they evidently deserve it that is..)

Anyway it's almost half a year and my birthday is approachinggg.. *subtle HINT* =)

i love it when it drizzles..

It's 2am right now and I'm still awake, waiting for my hair to dry-up and drinking tea cause I feel my tummy rumbling.. (one thing I like bout tea/coffee is it works well as a laxative for me.. anyways not like anyone's interested in this info so.....)

I haven't updated on my 'happening' life since January so here goes..

January
I've finally stopped emoing about being away from home and started getting used to staying in a land far far away (yess klang is a remote place for mee).. Helps to have a supportive bf and also wonderful colleagues who made sure you don't feel oh-so-lonely whenever work finishes and you go back to an empty house cause the rest of your roommates seem more happening than you.. Also helps to be close to at least one of your roommate who's also your colleague cause you're both on the same boat and there will be a natural underlying bond.

February
It's a month of lurvee and also time again when I'm just grateful to have a wonderful + loving bf who managed to render me speechless for valentine's.. No details cause me is private person.. huhu

Thanks dear for giving me the bestest valentine's day ever =)

This is also the month when I started driving on my own to work.. Made me really stressed cause for a while I was almost convinced that I am one of the worst drivers in the planet.. Improved a whole lot since then though I still get nervy when parking.. To me I think the only time when my driving is certified 'ok' is when my passengers actually fall asleep.. though I don't think that's feasible cause most of the time my mouth can't stop moving whenever someone else's in the car with me..

March
Finally got confirmed at the end of this month.. Feel like a full-fledged young adult in the working world.. Then yet again the thought of the never-ending piling-on responsibilities of adults crept into my mind and I found that my mindset of certain things have changed.. While weddings usually delight me a whole lot in the past, now it just makes me wonder..... don't even talk bout the future yet but how much does a wedding day costs on its own?.. Can we get used to living with a person when you've your own space/privacy all your life?.. Kids... ultimate responsibility.. it's not a 24hour kinda responsibility but it's for the rest of your life kinda responsibility..

HahA.. I know I thought of too much nonsense.. but hey, there's always the brighter side of things and it really boils down to how you want to view situations or changes.....

You'll know it's all worth it when you exchange vows with the person you love on your wedding day.. That itself is priceless.. and who says you can't have your own space still when living together?.. The responsibility of having kids may seem a lil scary at the beginning but when they really arrive, the joy they come with erases any fear you may have (heard this from someone experienced okay so certified true one)..

Anyways, thanks for hearing my rambles.. it's time to zzz for me since my cuppa tea has just finished..

Ending with current happening saying in my office which I thought was rather true!
"Take some time to smell the flowers"
Even though we all laugh whenever we hear that saying from anyone in the office, I think it's really relevent.. With time passing like a bullet train these days, we ought to take some time to enjoy the simple pleasures in life, be it the flowers at the side of the road, the smell of coffee in the morning, the beautiful weather of the day......

Stop and smell the flowers... Funny, yet very relevant... =)

constants..

I'm the kind of person who leans toward constants..

I like the certain way my room always look.. I usually put my stuffs at certain areas and therefore I rarely lose my things.. (If you think I'm a neat freak you may want to think again cause I'm a rather messy person >.<) I just know exactly where I would put my things cause I almost always put them at the same place.. So yea, though my room/desk may be super cluttered at times, I know exactly where everything is.. Lol..

I like people who are constant too.. Prefer them predictable than having some super complex character that I can't read.. So yea, I actually think that I would favor someone who blasts out their feelings/anger than someone who keeps them all in.. The latter scares me a whole lot..

I just realised that I'm not exactly the world's most tactful person as well, though I would like to think that I'm ok with articulating myself.. Maybe being insensitive plays a part as well.. an offensive passing statement, a supposedly insulting comment directed to me and I would not even realize it.. sigh.. So if I have offended anyone (defo unintentionally ok?).. do tell me straight as I may be happily skipping away without knowing that I just made someone miserable/angry.. even worse, I may be laughing at whatever that just happened >.<

I'm doing well now I should say.. Settling down with my new place/work.. In fact I'm thankful with my job as I dig the challenge it comes with.. Just hope I'm able to cope with whatever that's going to come in the future..

CNY's coming yo =) Can't wait for it as I really feel that I need a break...

Just for once, I want to wake up at 2pm, and have lunch at 4pm.. Without any worries, without any important thoughts..

Signing off now...
Want to know what's funny about constants of our life?